Brenda Della Casa is the internationally published author of Cinderella Was a Liar, The Managing Editor of I Am Staggered, USA, LLC and an established lifestyle writer and columnist who specializes in romance and wellness features. In addition to her career as a writer, Brenda has spent nine years interviewing thousands of men and women while working as a casting professional for some of television’s most well-known reality shows.
She spent a year interviewing over 1,500 single, married and coupled men and women world-wide specifically for her book, Cinderella Was a Liar, which has been translated into nine languages and published in 11 countries.
Brenda’s columns appear in Start Your Business Magazine, Basil&Spice, Divorce360.com, FiLife.com and I am staggered.com, the UK’s most popular Men’s Wedding Magazine. Her blog,Walking Barefoot, has been updated daily for five years and has over 4,000 monthly visitors.
Brenda has written for-and been featured in- dozens of publications including, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Glamour.com, Redbook, Psychologies, TheStreet.com, Men’s Health, Hallmark, FHM, ediets.com, Dan Schawbel’s Personal Branding Blog, Yahoo.com, Look, iVillage.com, Scarlet, Msn.com, Woman’s Day, Cosmo Bride, The Mirror, The Sun, The NY Daily News, Health and Fitness, Fabulous, For Me, Company, Seventeen, Bliss, New Woman and many others.
A lively and articulate guest, she has been a featured on numerous radio and television programs, including: The Today Show, iVillageLive!
Brenda was the creator and sole blogger for iVillage.com’s popular “La Dolce Vita” blog and served as the “Dear Luv Lady” for Lifetime.com for the duration of the column. Brenda received a Bachelor of Arts degree in Journalism from The American University in Washington, D.C. While in the nation’s capital, she worked as an Intern for President William Jefferson Clinton.
She currently lives in the United States.
I forgive my husband for cheating on me and then only admitting to it when I found out many years later. He didn’t view it as cheating but rather an “unfortunate incident” that didn’t need to be shared with me. I can’t forget what happened, but carrying around the bitterness, anger and resentment is only hurting me, so now I’m freeing myself by forgiving him.