Please feel free to answer one or all below or in your own space.
3.3.10
What is beautiful to you?
3.2.10
What age do you feel?
3.1.10
What is most right with out society today?
2.28.10
What is most wrong with our society today?
2.27.10
What do you think of men and women who have May/December romances?
2.26.10
Can you be genuinely happy for others?
2.25.10
If you could sit with anyone for an hour and ask anything you wanted to ask, who would you sit with and what would you ask?
2.24.10
What does “partnership” mean to you?
2.23.10
Who do you miss?
2.22.10
What were you so wrong about before?
2.21.10
Do you forgive people easily?
2.20.10
What are you most sure of at this point in your life?
2.19.10
Do you see tears as weakness?
2.18.10
What makes you laugh the hardest?
2.17.10
What would you say to you if you were not you and saw you in your situation?
2.16.10
Do you believe that we can “think” things into reality?
2.15.10
What if life were nothing more than one big lesson?
2.14.10
What do you love most about your life, yourself and the world we live in?
2.13.10
What do you think happens when we pass away?
2.12.10
What is your favorite “day date”?
2.11.10
What is your “story” and what does the way you tell it say about how you feel about it?
2.10.10
Are you somone who likes a clean home to live in or someone who cleans their home more for guests?
2.9.10
Are you more of a morning person or a night owl?
2.8.10
What do you think about arrogant people?
2.7.10
Do you give back to your community? Why/Why Not?
2.6.10
How many strikes does someone get before they are out of your life?
2.5.10
Where do you feel most tranquil?
2.4.10
Do you feel guilty for standing up for yourself?
2.3.10
Do you feel pressured to be someone you aren’t in order to be accepted?
2.2.10
Are you prejudiced in any way?
2.1.10
What if there was no death? Would you want to live forever?
1.31.10
Do you believe that marriages are meant to last?
1.30.10
What would you like to take back?
1.29.10
If you could only keep three friends, who would they be and why?
1.28.10
Do you think you are awkward?
1.27.10
What sport best represents you?
1.26.10
Who would you like to be with right now?
1.25.10
Do you make excuses for your bad behavior to avoid deling with it?
1.24.10
What was your favorite cartoon as a child? Why?
1.23.10
Do you “perform” in your mirror when no one is around?
1.22.10
What answers are you looking for?
1.21.10
If you could go back and live it all again, would you?
1.20.10
If any director would direct your life movie, what director would you choose?
1.19.10
What are you not sorry about?
1.18.10
Do you have good friends in your life?
1.17.10
What aspect of society is too modern? What aspect is too old-school?
1.16.10
Do you kiss on the first date?
1.15.10
Do you go out of your way to help or hinder others?
1.14.10
How is adulthood different from what you expected?
1.13.10
Do you want to have children?
1.12.10
Do you act or react more?
1.11.10
What makes you want to jump out of bed in the morning?
1.10.10
What conversation is it time to have with yourself?
1.9.10
Are you someone who manipulates others to get what you want from them?
1.8.10
Do you trick yourself into believing you are closer to people than you really are?
1.7.10
What do you most want to hold onto?
1.6.10
Are you an empathetic person?
1.5.10
How do you tell people how you feel, through words or through actions?
1.4.10
If you were an animal, which animal would you be?
1.3.10
If you had 48 hours left here, what would you do?
1.2.10
Do you miss being a kid? Why? Why Not?
1.1.10
Do you have the courage to go for your dreams?
12.31.09
What is your biggest hope for 2010?
12.30.09
If you are who you think you are, what do your thoughts make you?
12.29.09
Do you want to travel more?
12.28.09
Do you tend to misjudge people?
12.27.09
What are you willing to give to get what you want?
12.26.09
What empowers you?
12.25.09
What has been the greatest gift bestowed upon you by the universe thus far?
12.24.09
Do you like most people?
12.23.09
What fascinates you?
12.22.09
What is the difference between “doing good” and “looking good” to you? How are they connected for you?
12.21.09
Are you able to forgive others? Can you forget?
12.20.09
How many times do you fail to come to a conclusion before you walk away from something?
12.19.09
Are you able to see past appearances or do you get stuck on first impressions?
12.18.09
Do you truly believe most of the things you tell yourself you should believe?
12.17.09
Have you ever experienced something supernatural?
12.16.09
If you were to escape to paradise, where would you go?
12.15.09
What is your greatest pleasure?
12.14.09
In what ways do you reject yourself?
12.13.09
What parts of yourself do you find charming?
12.11.09
If your life were to make news, what headlines would run?
12.10.09
What does it mean to love someone?
12.09.09
Do you forgive easily?
12.08.09
What is your attitude towards money?
12.07.09
Do you settle for less than you feel you deserve in any area of your life? Why?
12.06.09
What about you makes you warm?
12.05.09
Are you someone who can let loose easily or are you more reserved?
12.04.09
What are you happiest about these days?
12.03.09
What is a mother’s role?
12.02.09
Do you believe marriage is a valuable institution in this day and age?
12.01.09
Do you believe that you have a predetermined destiny?
11.30.09
Do you believe in defined gender roles?
11.29.09
Do you have a healthy amount of self-esteem?
11.28.09
Do you think you can get it all done before it’s over?
11.27.09
What are you truly thankful for?
11.26.09
Would you trade your life with someone famous? If so, who and why?
11.25.09
Do you do what needs to be done?
11.24.09
If you could change three things about your life (aside from money issues) what would you change?
11.23.09
Did you hold on too long or let go too soon?
11.22.09
What happened in the blink of an eye?
11.21.09
If you were a gemstone, which stone would you be? Why?
11.20.09
What are you no longer afraid of?
11.19.09
What did you reject as a child but accept now?
11.18.09
Are you too critical? Too soft?
11.17.09
Where do you want to be in 20 years?
11.16.09
Do you trust those who you pretend to trust?
11.15.09
What are your three biggest secrets right now?
11.14.09
What do you find silly that others take seriously?
11.13.09
What do you take seriously that others find silly?
11.12.09
What would you put your life on the line for?
11.11.09
Do you believe in yourself?
11.10.09
Do you worry people do not respect you?
11.09.09
Are you a jealous person?
11.08.09
Do you think it’s better to be nice or calculating?
11.07.09
What has been your biggest heartache thus far?
11.06.09
If your life were made into a movie, who would you like to play you?
11.05.09
Are you able to laugh things off?
11.04.09
What is your favorite movie?
11.03.09
What is your wildest dream?
11.02.09
Are you as close to your friends as you think you are?
11.01.09
When it comes to passion, how hot is too hot?
10.31.09
What would you like to forget?
10.30.09
What would you like to remember better?
10.29.09
What are you “stuck” on?
10.28.09
How do you reconcile what has happened to you in the past?
10.27.09
Who is the one person who always puts you in the best mood?
10.26.09
What’s worse? To be put down or to be ignored?
10.25.09
Are you a tea or coffee person?
10.24.09
Is there such a thing as “too honest” in your world?
10.23.09
Do you feel compelled to downplay your achievements?
10.22.09
Do you feel obligated to accept every wedding invitation?
10.21.09
What song is your theme song these days?
10.20.09
How will today be different?
10.19.09
Do you believe in a higher power?
10.18.09
Are you open to trying new ways of thinking?
10.17.09
Do you love yourself enough to be honest with yourself?
10.16.09
Do you feel differently about things now that you are older?
10.15.09
What do you see clearly now?
10.14.09
What are you ready to let go of and move on from? What is corroding your life?
10.13.09
Where is your voice?
10.12.09
Do you ever do things you dislike doing just because you always do them?
10.11.09
What piece of technology could you live without for a week?
10.10.09
What are you going to do to make this world a better place?
10.09.09
What will be the title of the next chapter of your life?
10.08.09
Do you have a solid emotional foundation?
10.07.09
What is your favorite cuisine?
10.06.09
How can you put a positive spin on a negative situation?
10.05.09
What is the best thing you have ever done for yourself? For another?
10.04.09
Do you care about being a good person?
10.03.09
What do you think people say about you when you are not around?
10.02.09
How can you come across in a little more polished way?
10.01.09
How do you invest in yourself?
9.30.09
What are 10 things you want to do before you leave this Earth?
9.29.09
What are five things you want to change about you? What are five things you love about you?
9.28.09
Are you someone who stirs the pot?
9.27.09
Do you feel in-control or controlled?
9.26.09
What represents “happiness” to you?
9.25.09
Do you believe in “soul mates”?
9.24.09
If a relationship with someone no longer brings you peace, joy and happiness, how soon do you walk away?
9.23.09
Do you say things you actually mean or just speak without thinking?
9.22.09
Do you believe love is forever?
9.21.09
What song touches you the most right now?
9.20.09
What is your favorite magazine? Why?
9.19.09
Can you let it go?
9.18.09
Do you try your best to pay your debts, financial and otherwise?
9.17.09
What inspires a belly laugh from you?
9.16.09
When was the last time you were truly sorry?
9.15.09
What defines “respectful” to you?
9.14.09
How do you really feel about the life you have lived?
9.13.09
Who has been your greatest influence in the past year?
9.12.09
What makes you feel insecure?
9.11.09
What is so unimportant that it doesn’t deserve your attention anymore?
9.10.09
If you could fly or be invisible, which would you choose and why?
9.9.09
What amazes you?
9.8.09
Who do you work hard not to forget?
9.7.09
What are you worried about losing?
9.6.09
Where does your heart feel most protected?
9.5.09
What makes you giddy?
9.4.09
What is your greatest wish?
9.3.09
What does the word “elegant” mean to you?
9.2.09
Do you give people the benefit of the doubt or assume the worse?
9.1.09
If you could afford anything you wanted, what would you buy/do?
8.31.09
If life were ending in a week, what would you say/think about/do?
8.30.09
What satisfaction do you get from your less honorable characteristics?
8.29.09
Are you who you say you are?
8.28.09
What do you keep worrying will come to pass that never comes to pass?
8.27.09
Do you think people are too caught up in being a part of a couple for the sake of being seen as being part of a couple?
8.26.09
Who/What is your muse?
8.25.09
How hard are you on yourself? How are you hard on yourself?
8.24.09
What do you find funny that others find serious? What do you find serious that others find funny?
8.23.09
What part of yourself are you ready to disengage?
8.22.09
Where will you go from here?
8.21.09
If love were truly all you needed, where would you be? Who would you be with?
8.20.09
Are you prepared to have what you think you want most?
8.19.09
What if everything you think you “know” is wrong?
8.18.09
Where is your sanctuary?
8.17.09
What are three things you truly believe in?
8.16.09
In what ways do you manipulate others? How do others try and manipulate you?
8.15.09
What would you fight to protect?
8.14.09
Do you feel you are someone others can look up to and respect? Why? Why not?
8.13.09
What are you dying to say to someone but can’t get the courage to utter? What might happen if you just blurted it out and let the pieces fall where they may?
8.12.09
What truly frustrates you about yourself? What inspires you about you?
8.11.09
Will you be the same you in 10 years? Do you hope so or hope not? Why?
8.10.09
What really matters to most people?
8.9.09
When someone says something to you (negative) about how you make them feel, do you try and see their point-of-view and feel bad you have hurt them or immediately start a counter-attack?
.8.09
Who is the most selfish person you know? How are you like them? How are you different?
8.7.09
Do you accept what is real or sit and hope?
8.6.09
Who would you like to change? How would you like to change them?
8.5.09
What do you really wish to become in this life?
8.4.09
Who knows who you really are?
8.3.09
What do you want to pretend never happened?
8.2.09
Do you allow yourself to be defined by your job? Your zip code? Your relationship status? What defines you?
8.1.09
Why do you lie?
7.31.09
Do you believe in soul mates?
7.30.09
Do you feel connected or disconnected to your loved ones?
7.29.09
What do you feel most judged about? By whom?
7.28.09
Have you ever cheated on anyone/anything? How did it make you feel? How do you feel about it now?
7.27.09
What is the song that best represents your life thus far?
7.26.09
What old anger still lives and corrodes your insides? How can you let it go?
7.25.09
Would you go back to age 5 and live your life again? Why? Why Not?
7.24.09
Are you more likely to soak it in or spit it out?
7.23.09
Who told you that you couldn’t be who you wanted to be? If you believed them, why?
7.22.09
What did you learn today?
7.21.09
What is the dumbest thing you have ever said?
7.20.09
What are you doing too much of these days? Too little of?
7.19.09
What are you most afraid of?
7.18.09
If you could change places with any rock star, who would you trade with and why?
7.17.09
Do you respect yourself?
7.16.09
Who are you ready to forgive?
7.15.09
What steals your thunder? How can you learn to protect yourself better?
7.14.09
What is hurting you?
7.13.09
Are you supportive to those in your life?
7.12.09
In what moment did you truly “wake up” to life? Have you?
7.11.09
In what ways are you too hard on yourself? Too easy?
7.10.09
How thick is your skin? Would you like it to be thicker? Thinner?
7.9.09
In what ways are you wonderful?
7.8.09
Do you believe people can change? Why? Why not?
7.7.09
What do you know to be true?
7.6.09
When did you pick yourself up and move through something you never thought you’d get out of?
7.5.09
When have you played the fool?
7.4.09
Do you feel that people are obligated to take your advice? Do you feel obligated to take the advice of others?
7.3.09
How do you manage your expectations? Do you manage them at all? Why? Why not?
7.2.09
Do you demand too much or too little from your relationships?
7.1.09
What do you want from the people in your life that you are not getting?
6.30.09
How are you too positive? How are you too negative?
6.29.09
What lesson plan keeps creeping into your life? What are you having a hard time learning?
6.28.09
How are you out-of-control? How are you too in-control?
6.27.09
What is your greatest power?
6.26.09
Who is the person you ache to be with right now?
6.25.09
How do you deal with your fear?
6.24.09
Do you know what you think you know or are you guessing?
6.23.09
Where is your “home”?
6.22.09
Are you addicted to something?
6.21.09
Do you believe in Marriage? Why/Why Not?
6.20.09
What will you do for the rest of your days that is unlike what you have done until this day?
6.19.09
Do you value the opinion of those in a position than the one you maintain?
6.18.09
How do you believe society has changed in the past 50 years? How has it remained the same?
6.17.09
What impresses you? Why?
6.16.09
Do you think some people are”better” than others? Why/Why Not?
6.15.09
Do you feel you are a person worthy of respect?
6.14.09
What is your greatest fear regarding work?
6.13.09
Where do you want to be in your life one year from today?
6.12.09
Do you really care about the state of the world today?
6.11.09
If you were a lead character in a classic novel, who would you be?
6.10.09
What is more important to you; looks, money, personality, values, humor or status?
6.9.09
Why do you think we care so much about what other people choose to do in their personal lives?
6.8.09
If you were to die tomorrow, what would you wish you had done today?
6.7.09
What sights and sounds bring you a sense of peace and serenity? Which ones make you feel tense/chaotic?
6.6.09
What are small things people can do that will make a big impact on how you feel about them?
6.5.09
When was the last time you were angry? In what ways could you have handled yourself better?
6.4.09
What lies are you ready to stop telling?
6.3.09
Are you a decent person?
6.2.09
Can you feel joy for another when miserable with your own situation?
6.1.09
Who is your hero?
5.30.09
If you were to go back and time and have dinner with an old movie star, who would it be and why?
5.29.09
What words do you wish you could take back right now?
5.28.09
What did you give up too soon? Too late?
5.27.09
How much do you know about it, really?
5.26.09
Do you think people are comfortable being themselves around you?
5.25.09
What are three things you can do this week to honor yourself?
5.24.09
What’s the difference between “hope” and “hanging on too long”?
5.23.09
What would you tell your best friend if they were in your situation?
5.22.09
Do you believe you can do it?
5.21.09
What has been the loneliest moment of your life thus far?
5.20.09
What is too far away from you right now?
5.19.09
Do you talk “at” people or talk “with” people?
5.18.09
If you were a dessert in a pastry shop, what would you be and why?
5.17.09
What is the best thing about the friendship you offer others?
5.16.09
What are three things that make you an expert about something?
5.15.09
What do you think someone who has passed away would tell you about your life right now?
5.14.09
How will you be brave today?
5.13.09
Does your desire for love work against you?
5.12.09
Are you an opportunist?
5.11.09
Do you try and see the other person’s side of things?
5.10.09
Are everyday decisions bigger issues than they should be in your life?
5.9.09
Are you more interested in heart or looks?
5.8.09
Are you a sexual being?
5.7.09
Is there someone in your life who constantly stomps on your boundaries? Is there someone who says you are the one doing the stomping?
5.6.09
What are you constantly overreacting about?
5.5.09
Do you please others more than you please yourself? If so, why?
5.4.09
Do you feel you deserve more from those closest to you?
5.3.09
Do you believe in a higher power?
5.2.09
If you sit with anyone in history and talk for an hour, who would you speak with? What would you ask? What would you say?
5.1.09
Have you ever been in love with two people at the same time?
4.30.09
How self-reliant are you?
4.29.09
Are you more proud of yourself or more ashamed of yourself?
4.28.09
When was the last time you were bold?
4.27.09
Do you make excuses for yourself or others just to keep the peace?
4.26.09
Who do you love?
4.25.09
What do you do to make life easier for someone else?
4.24.09
What’s the motivation behind your voice when it is raised?
4.23.09
What do you feel are your basic “rights” in a relationship?
4.22.09
Do you believe in yourself or believe you have no real chance at happiness/success/love?
4.21.09
Do you feel bad for standing up for yourself? Why?
4.20.09
Are you judgemental?
4.19.09
How do handle pressure?
4.18.09
What do you want more/less of in your life?
4.17.09
What is something in your life that could use a makeunder?
4.16.09
What are the five major milestones in your life thus far?
4.15.09
What will you do when there is nothing left to say?
4.14.09
If you had the courage, what would you do?
4.13.09
If you plagiarise the personality of others, why do you do it?
4.12.09
If you had three wishes to be granted, what would you wish for?
4.11.09
What are you most honest/dishonest about?
4.10.09
In what ways are you strong? In what ways are you weak?
4.9.09
What makes you feel completely irresistible?
4.8.09
Why do you think people gossip about people they supposedly like? Do you? Why/why not?
4.7.09
Do you believe you have just one soul mate?
4.6.09
Are you more apt to complain or actually do something?
4.5.09
What makes someone a good friend to you?
4.4.09
How do you feel after-the-fact?
4.3.09
What good is having so much goodness around you if you don’t take the time to notice it?
4.2.09
Why are you happy to be alive?
4.1.09
Why are you holding yourself back from doing what you really and truly love?
3.31.09
Take a look at your life. What sector has been in retrograde far too long?
3.30.09
Where do you really and truly want to go from here?
3.29.09
Are you an old soul or young soul? Why?
3.28.09
What do you wish you knew back then?
3.27.09
Do you care as much as you say you do?
3.26.09
What deserves your respect?
3.25.09
What does the idea of being super famous and super anonymous make you feel?
3.24.09
How does ultimate freedom make you feel?
3.23.09
What are you blaming others for that really has nothing at all to do with them?
3.22.09
How many times have you broken your promises to yourself?
3.21.09
If you were a color in a Crayola box, which color would you be and why?
3.20.09
What causes are you willing to make a few enemies fighting for?
3.19.09
What are you really afraid of? What are three ways for you to work through your fears?
3.18.09
How would you feel if you had no access to the Internet, phone or television for an entire day?
3.17.09
When someone asks you how you are doing, how often do you respond honestly?
3.16.09
How comfortable do you think others are around you?
3.15.09
Are you confident in what you believe and ask others to believe?
3.14.09
Why put off til tomorrow what you can do right now?
3.13.09
What is the word that best defines who you are at this moment?
3.12.09
Why is it that things like wanting to look good need to be classified as good or bad?
3.11.09
Do you believe in a higher power?
3.10.09
What is the kindest compliment anyone has ever bestowed upon you?
3.9.09
What are some ways in which you can show a softer side of yourself to others?
3.8.09
What is it time to make right?
3.7.09
Are you a good listener or do you zone out and/or wait to speak?
3.6.09
If you met the 10-year-old version of yourself today, what would you think he/or she would make you promise to do in the next decade?
3.5.09
How do you hope people describe you when you are not around?
3.4.09
What are the greatest expectations you have for yourself?
3.3.09
How does your general temperament affect your decision-making process and the way in which you interpret the world?
3.2.09
Do you bring more problems or solutions to the table?
3.1.09
What is your favorite childhood memory?
2.28.09
Do you keep things inside or let feelings rush out of you? How is this working for you?
2.27.09
What do you really think and feel and which emotions and thoughts are “habits”?
2.26.09
How can you use what you are most fighting against in a beneficial way?
2.25.09
What are three things you are constantly overreacting about?
2.24.09
What have you done that you are ashamed of and how has shame you have not confronted impact your life?
2.23.09
What is your greatest strength/weakness?
2.22.09
Are you expecting too much from your relationships or not enough?
2.21.09
In what ways have you grown stronger over the past few years?
2.20.09
If you were an animal, what animal would you be and why?
2.19.09
What are you pushing against that just isn’t budging?
2.18.09
How strong and capable do you feel these days?
2.17.09
How healthy do you feel? Mentally? Emotionally? Physically? How much water are you drinking? Are you addicted to worry/drama/chaos/fear? What are you overdosing on? What are your deficiencies? Need more TLC? More Vitamin C? More understanding?
2.16..09
How would your life be different if you had nothing to fear? How would you be different?
2.15.09
What do you really stand for?
2.14.09
What are three things you truly love about yourself and your life right this second?
2.13.09
When do you know you have had “enough”?
2.12.09
Who are the most supportive people in your life?
2.11.09
Think of something you really want to achieve in life. What are three ways in which you can put a plan into action? What is your plan b?
2.10.09
What is the motivation deep down that makes you most uncomfortable?
2.09.09
How do you deal with rejection?
2.08.09
What lies are you telling to yourself? What lies are you telling to others?
2.07.09
If you could go back in time and change one action what instance would you change? How would your life be different now?
2.06.09
Do you feel you “over-share” in certain situations? Do you “Under-share” in some?
2.05.09
Where would you choose to live if someone offered to send you and pay all of your expenses for a full two years? What would you do while there?
2.04.09
Does the current economic climate have an impact on how you view yourself?
2.3.09
What are you tired of carrying around and ready to just let go of already?
2.2.09
When you realize that your efforts are not being appreciated and/or reciprocated, do you keep on the same track or do an “about face”? How often does this happen for you?
2.1.09
If you were to be face-to-face with your 95-year-old self, what do you think he/she would tell you to do with your life right now?
1.31.09
If you were to describe yourself in six words, what would they be? What six words best describe you 10 years ago?
1.30.09
Are you more likely to lead or more likely to follow? Why?
1.29.09
If you were to come back in another life, would you want to be male or female? Why?
1.28.09
What do you want more of in your life right now? What are three things you can do to get more romance/exercise/social interaction/solitude or whatever out of it? Can you ask for help? Can you take on less? Can you buy yourself roses and chocolates? Can you go out more or sign up for a club or class?
1.27.09
Think of someone you dislike and pretend you had to write a compelling argument defending their behavior. What would you say about them? What are their circumstances? What are their fears? What are they aching for others to understand about them?
1.26.09
What are two habits that are no longer working to your advantage?
1.25.09
What are the three “Life Rules” we all should follow?
1.24.09
If you totally accepted your quirks and the traits that make you who you are and stopped trying to curb what feels most “right” in order to please others, how different would you feel when around others in the first place?
1.23.09
What are three ways you stand in the way of your own happiness?
1.22.09
How do you work to be the change you want to see in your relationships and life situations? Do you sit and complain or do you take action?
1.21.09
What are the three greatest lessons of your life thus far?
1.20.09
If no one were to judge you, who would you really be at all times?
1.19.09
If money were no object, what would you spend the next 12 months doing? If you say, “Travel” where?
1.18.09
If you could go back in time to 1994 and tell yourself three things, what would you say?
Posted by Imelda on January 18, 2009 at 7:16 pm
Remember to honor yourself and what you believe everyday. Don’t place responsibility on others for how you feel about yourself. Just remember to honor trust, respect and love in yourself and everything will be okay.
Posted by Reka on January 19, 2009 at 6:21 pm
Very hard to answer the first question. The second one is one of my favorite questions and I think about it often. I am not into traveling by the way.
Whenever I answer the money question, I always realise that aside from few changes I would make in my life, such as a new apt, more comfortable lifetsyle perhaps, in the long run my life would be pretty much the same, though somehwat easier. But I would be the same person and do the same. The heavy stuff wouldn’t change for me.
Posted by Reka on January 20, 2009 at 2:10 pm
I have a sort of sad answer to that. Inside I’d be the same, but outside, I wouldn’t care at all about how I look because I really don’t. So that would be different. If there weren’t people, I would cut all my hair, it’s a nuisance, I wouldn’t care how I am dressed, wouldn’t use make-up etc etc.
Posted by Reka on January 25, 2009 at 12:27 pm
Great questions again, Brenda. I think I’m doing well with accepting myself and being who I am with others, generally.
What stands in my way is well, laziness I am afraid, motivation to actually do it, and fear of not even sure what.
Life rules, would be difficult to name just 3, but I’m thinking about it.