I totally agree. It’s once we let go of searching so hard and trying so hard, and instead focus on what really makes us happy that we are most likely to find real love. In following our own dreams and passions we not only become happier ourselves, but we also become more interesting and attractive to others.

A scorpion and a frog meet on the bank of a stream and the
scorpion asks the frog to carry him across on its back. The
frog asks, “How do I know you won’t sting me?” The scorpion
says, “Because if I do, I will die too.”

The frog is satisfied, and they set out, but in midstream,
the scorpion stings the frog. The frog feels the onset of
paralysis and starts to sink, knowing they both will drown,
but has just enough time to gasp “Why?”

Replies the scorpion: “Its my nature.”