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We had texted and emailed several times over the past year but very little information had been exchanged.  The truth is that our “friendship” was more of an acquaintance, and one that helped us pass the time more than anything else.  But these 12 … Continue reading →

I think Irene needs to go back to hurricane school. All jokes aside, I am glad it was no biggie.  That said, I am not loving that we have no public transportation!  Grrr…

Edith Piaf on the radio, rain hitting the window and laundry in the dryer.  Jasmine Tea. Lavender Oil. A beso. A baci. A kiss. Knowing your worth.   Fresh flowers. Baked goods in the oven. Making a meal for someone … Continue reading →

When we start down the path of accountability and begin taking responsibility for our own happiness and our success (or lack thereof) we are likely to feel a range of emotion.  We may feel strong or scared, inspired or intimidated.  … Continue reading →

Peter Thomas Roth Instant Firm(x): This stuff is unbelievable. It’s temporary but it’s an incredible temporary fix that works fast. That Velvet Revolver is amazing.  OK, I knew that (Slither is one of my favorite songs).  But I just discovered this … Continue reading →

Destiny is another word for destination.  You decide what turns you will make, what passengers you will bring along and whether or not you will move forward at all. Your life is not predetermined.  Every choice, action, inaction, decision, lie, … Continue reading →

Living in New York can be stressful. From the grouchy MTA operator screaming back a non-answer to your question to rushing from work to birthday happy hours with a  deadline looming over your tired head.  Whether it’s just natural progression or outright … Continue reading →

Wisdom is everywhere.  Here are a few gems. “If you aren’t careful, you will spend your whole life trying to make this relationship work.” “There are some people who are stronger than you are, and when you try to save … Continue reading →

I love you with all of my heart.

Finally get those heavy things off of your “to-do” list.  The longer you leave them, the more they weigh you down. Start being honest about who you are, what you want and how you really feel. Laugh off the silly … Continue reading →

This is great.

  I’ve got a Spanish boy on the brain.  What else is new?

I have no time for: People who want to tell me why I cannot achieve my dreams. People who want to pull me back into the past. Envy. Liars. Meaningless arguments. Careless insults. Calculated manipulations. Toxic relationships. Comfortable ignorance. Deception. … Continue reading →

  These days that you live through, the people that you meet, the actions you take or choose not to take… They all lead up to a story. What does yours say about you so far? How will it end? … Continue reading →

Stick it out. There are few things more beautiful than watching something you thought was dead and done blossom into something fragrant and beautiful.  Be a little happy when your best friend/partner/favorite family member’s plane gets delayed.  More time with … Continue reading →

You know all of that dust in your house? Well, 80% of it is shedded skin.  As in your shedded skin. Gross.

In honor of my sweet Marilyn who died 49 years ago today. Aside from my Papa, no one has inspired or comforted me more. xoxo

Are you someone who prefers to give or to get? Do you know how to take a compliment with grace? Are you quick to support or criticize? Are you flexible or stuck in your ways? How are your ways working … Continue reading →

You can make excuses or you can make changes. You can grimace or show gratitude. You choose which level you will live on. You can fight or you can work towards a solution. You can blame or you can accept … Continue reading →

Anyone who has ever had someone “flip-flop” knows the importance of being surrounded by people who honor and stand by their word.  Doing what you say you will do, maintaining your value system and showing respect for the promises you … Continue reading →

Revolver (Madonna) Criminal (Britney) S&M (Rhianna & Britney)

Most of th dreams you have for yourself are achievable. Life is moving forward and time stops for no (wo)man. You will be betrayed in your life.  How you handle that betrayal will help dictate just how often it repeats … Continue reading →

“You should be happy every day.  Well, I know that’s optimistic, but that’s what you should strive for so that you can quickly identify who is a drag and move away from them.” S “You will never be able to wear size … Continue reading →

Preperation-H Under The Eyes- The one for “swelling” works so quickly and so well.  Another great little gem? Sephora Under-Eye roll on cream. Note: A big merci to my friend, Parris, for introducing me to that one. My iPhone  I … Continue reading →

You stopped making excuses? You stopped trying to convince them to do what you want? You held yourself to the highest possible standard? You looked for the ways in which you contributed to a situation and took a proactive approach … Continue reading →

Stella Illuminating Foundation and Powder: After plenty of buying and returning, I finally found a foundation and powder that A) doesn’t go on too thick, B) makes skin glow (but not in a greasy “you-really-need-to-blot” way and C) doesn’t cost a … Continue reading →

Between love and addiction. Between cynicism and fear. Between friendship and utility. Between intention and impulse. Between thought and truth. Between you and another.

Your mind finds what it looks for. Your boundaries determine how much you will take. Your love, friendship and hard work is worth being respected and appreciated. Manners and kindness shown to others will open doors, arrogance and rude behavior … Continue reading →

Since I am always talking about taking what you have and making the best out of it, I decided to walk the walk. After much hemming and hawing about whether I would re-sign my lease, I decided the best thing I could … Continue reading →