Give her home an upgrade to make it dreamy.  Forget the address and remember– it’s what’s on the inside that counts.

Stop chasing men. Stay still and see how much he reaches out.

Love herself enough to carry herself like the lovely, intelligent, feisty, fearless, open and stunning lady that she is.

Drink more water, eat less sugar and swallow more vitamins.

Get all of those holes and heels fixed.

Laugh in the face of judgement.

Cry the tears, once and for all.

Accept the date from the one who isn’t her “type”.

Understand that advice is like clothing: we are to take what fits and discard the rest. Give them the freedom to do the same.

Stop saying mean things about herself.

Cut out those who bring her more frustration than smiles.

Reach out to a few friends.

Remind herself of where she has been and feel the confidence increase as she realizes that she has survived.

Decide to be her very best and see what happens.

Forgive them, forget them, or both.  Just move on.

Clean up and have people over.

Think of 10 things she is grateful for.

Kiss him under the moonlight.

Stand up for herself.

Trust herself more.