The Paintings of Remigio Guadango: I discovered his work last year and have enjoyed following him on Facebook ever since. Vibrant and sensual with distinct mediterranean undertones, his paintings maintain a simple beauty. Note: His website can be temperamental so follow him on Facebook to see his work.
Remigio Guadagno
Discovering New Cocktails: Since vodka and I have a complicated relationship and I haven’t quite learned how to appreciate scotch the way one should, I’ve mostly stuck to big, bold red’s and called it a good night. Still, there’s something to be said for sexy concoctions made by enthusiastic mixologists. Who knew chipotle could make an adult beverage so tasty? Yes, I am talking about you, Smoked Opal Martini (at Beauty & Essex).
Arnica Cream: Have a bruise or a swollen anything? This stuff works. Just use it sparingly and follow directions (check with your doctor first).
Zipping Around The EnWhySee: I’ve been here for 10 years and there’s still something new to see. Fortunately, my friends enjoy brunching, lunching, shopping, openings, going for nice dinners and sipping cocktails as much as I do. A few favorites: Gemma, Cuba, Aria, Havana, Esperanto, Highlands, Alta, El Diablo Royale, Frank, Lombardi’s, Gramercy Tavern, Sala, Elsa, The Jane Hotel, Cafe Noir, Ideya and Lillies.
Nicaraguan Cigars: Most aficionados will agree that Padron cigars are the way to go if you’re looking for something similar to the forbidden Cuban. I used to smoke them with a Nicaraguan in a Cuban-style cigar lounge off the beach in Puerto Vallarta every year. Now, I don’t smoke cigarettes and some might cringe, but it’s a lovely memory. Mine are best served with a dirty martini, good company and salty Latin music.
Tango Flamenco: I am enamored of all things Latin (as you well know) and the tango mystifies me. Strong, seductive, with a perfect balance of masculinity and femininity, I find myself intoxicated by the dance, the music, the passion and yes, the shoes. Though this is not traditional or typical tango, it’s a song I love to put on when I am cooking. The artwork is nice to look at as well.
Courting Myself: In Cinderella Was a Liar, I talk about the importance of dating yourself whether or not you are in a relationship. Last week, I decided to follow my own advice and posted that I was in a “Serious relationship with Brenda Della Casa” on my Facebook page. The post resulted in dozens of “Likes” and notes thanking me for reminding friends to honor their individuality. I’ve since posted photos of gifts I have bought myself, places I have taken myself and fun little ways I am celebrating my little space here in the world. Corny, yes, but it’s actually brought about a nice change in my life. Perhaps you should court you a bit, just don’t become one of those couples who stays in all of the time 
Marc Anthony Mood Boosts: It’s utterly impossible to be down with this song on the stereo.
My Accountant: Need one? Drop me a line.
A New Chapter: Thanks to a three-part story that wrapped up a couple of weeks ago, I have a much different view of myself, life, the world and those in it. With the introspective incubation period over, I’m now being flooded with the benefits of the experience. Though I find the behavior of the messenger questionable, I’m a much wiser, stronger and happier person as a result of knowing them and that’s all that really matters. The universe will bring people, exchanges and experiences into our lives as a way to push us forward, it’s up to us to listen, learn and put those lessons into practice.
What are you loving now?
