It can come at you suddenly, the desire to trust another.
Maybe it’s the way their eyes smile while looking at you or the way they say all of the words you had hoped to hear.
More often than not, it’s the way they make you feel; safe, appreciated,desired, cared for.
But the world is a funny place and the gift of trust is not often accepted with the respect with which it’s given. Through trial and error, we learn that the creation of such a “safe” atmosphere can be fueled by sincerity or manipulation, and when it’s the latter, the giver of the ultimate gift is too often left feeling a fool.
Certain people cannot hide their tender hearts as wolves hide their teeth. They walk into situations blinded by their own projections. “I am trustworthy, so they must be, too,”they say. Their friends try to warn them as they run laps, past the red flags and the signs begging them to yield to logic and reason.
And finally, the cheering stops and they collapse. Their hearts racing from the panic that comes when they discover they were oh, so wrong. Their feet cut by the pieces of their shattered ideals. Their eyes wet with frustration.
“I’m a fool,” they say to themselves.
“You’re a fool,” says the wolf.
“No, They’re the fool,” whispers the universe.
Reminds me of the parable “The Scorpion and the Frog”
A scorpion and a frog meet on the bank of a stream and the
scorpion asks the frog to carry him across on its back. The
frog asks, “How do I know you won’t sting me?” The scorpion
says, “Because if I do, I will die too.”
The frog is satisfied, and they set out, but in midstream,
the scorpion stings the frog. The frog feels the onset of
paralysis and starts to sink, knowing they both will drown,
but has just enough time to gasp “Why?”
Replies the scorpion: “Its my nature.”
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