The best thing you can do is give someone exactly what they asked for.
You have to let go of the ideal job/home/relationship/look in order to get to something better than you have now (if only the same thing you have infused with appreciation).
You’re going to be working for a jerk.
You have to accept that, maybe, it’s your fault, too.
There is more to it than what has been revealed.
You have to be a little calculating.
You have to believe in yourself enough to take the risk.