The best thing you can do is give someone exactly what they asked for.

You have to let go of the ideal job/home/relationship/look in order to get to something better than you have now (if only the same thing you have infused with appreciation).

You’re going to be working for a jerk.

You have to accept that, maybe, it’s your fault, too.

There is more to it than what has been revealed.

You have to be a little calculating.

You have to believe in yourself enough to take the risk.