Monthly Archives: January 2010

The more “on display” we feel around others, the less secure we are. A few simple ways to build confidence: Take on a challenge Apologize only for true mistakes that you have made Remind yourself that the messages you heard as … Continue reading →

Trust is something that needs to be built in all of our relationships, even the one with ourselves. The more we show ourselves that we have our own back, that we can keep our secrets and offer ourselves a helping … Continue reading →

When we aren’t living authentically, we behave in erratic ways, saying and doing things that feel awkward, embarrassing and uncomfortable at best, truly damaging at worst.  Knowing who you are, what you stand for, what you want & what you … Continue reading →

I have always had a bit of a mad crush on Johnny Depp (who doesn’t?) and I love that he is so true to who he is and his signature style, which is rarely inside the lines. It is for … Continue reading →

Getting together with friends is a great way to spend the winter months, but these days a night on the town can cost a fortune. Read below for a few fun ways to socialize without going broke. Host a Movie-Themed Potluck: … Continue reading →

A Ph.D student, Peter Backus, used the Drake Equation (used to estimate the number of highly evolved civilizations that might exist in our galaxy) to figure out the liklihood of his finding love in the UK.  It’s brilliant.

Taking a look around at the world today can inspire many of us to start spewing a list of complaints; friends and family members disappoint us, jobs end or stall at a dead-end and those we have trusted can prove … Continue reading →

We have spoken about jealousy many times but it seems to be a constant and common theme in the emails that find their way to me that I thought I would take a moment and address it.  Of course, this post, … Continue reading →

True happiness comes from an individual place; a place of self-reliance and self worth and carrying yourself with dignity, indulging your passions, enjoying your time alone and truly developing your personality and getting to know yourself. Just as the best way to … Continue reading →

The smell of green apple boosts mood and lowers anxiety?

Obsessed by Mimi Waiting for Tonight J.Lo She Wolf Shakira Spinning Around Kylie (The lyrics to this song are fabulous) Naughty Girl Beyonce Womanizer  Brit  Slave for you by Brit  (she gets two because we love her) Die another Day … Continue reading →

It doesn’t matter what anyone says about you, be it good or bad.  It matters only who you truly are inside.

You may not believe it .. but that does not make it any less true, and you need to know, there is a power inside of you. There is a light, and a heart that beats, a soul that dreams, and … Continue reading →

There are those men and women who walk away from relationships and situations at the first sign of trouble and others who “stick with it” years after they ought to have thrown in the towel.  While it’s important to understand that … Continue reading →

Think about who you are and who you want to be. Think about what you say to others about yourself. Think about what you say to yourself about others, and what you say about yourself to yourself. Pay close attention … Continue reading →

Bite Your Tongue:  We won’t always agree with one another’s choices but unless the choice is truly detrimental or unsafe, it’s best to keep your opinion to yourself. Mind Your Manners: Etiquette is a set of rules based on showing value … Continue reading →

Sometimes, it can feel as though the entire world is passing you by, as though there is no hope for betterment in any area of your life and all will come crashing down in a moment’s time. When the darkness … Continue reading →

I am hoping all of you will take a moment and help my friend, Amy, out. The charity she advises is one of the Top 100 charities in running for a $1M donation from Chase! So exciting! Voting is SUPER … Continue reading →

and don’t waste time counting the pebbles under your feet.

“Don’t be afraid to give up the good to go for the great. “

You are complete all by yourself.

Motivate Yourself:  It doesn’t matter how much you know, what your intentions are or how talented you are if you don’t force yourself to get up and do something. Our actions are what execute great ideas. Don’t Fear Failure: You … Continue reading →

Let us care less about approval and more about honor.

When do I  R.S.V.P?  A.  As soon as You Know Whether or Not You Can Attend (and definitely before the deadline).   Can I Bring Guests?  A. Not unless it is specified on the invitation.  Never assume guests or children are invited unless … Continue reading →

This is such a great idea for those who are ready to start trying new things and looking to save money on grocery bills.

I awoke this morning and went into the kitchen to make the pot of coffee that I am so terribly addicted to and my mind played a terrible trick on me.  The Western wall of our apartment is made of … Continue reading →

When you do something, you learn something and when you learn something, you grow. Growth is not failure. Failing to act is failure.

When looking at your life map, work to avoid the roads you have taken that have led you nowhere. One should only visit the same dead-end once, yes?

“Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.”

Interested in becoming a closer couple?  Read a few of my tips here.

Happiness is like a warm summer breeze; we cannot grasp onto it, plan it or save it for another day… We can only enjoy it when it floats our way and hope it comes again soon.

There aren’t too many people walking around this shared Earth of ours who don’t know what it feels to live in a mental pressure-cooker.  Whether it’s work-related, relationship-related, friendship-related, secret-related or- goodness forbid-health-related, stress finds a way to seep into … Continue reading →

Never one to turn my nose up to massage, I recently agreed to a friend performing reflexology on my sootsies and was astounded at just how effective the process was.  Not only did it feel amazing (I am such a … Continue reading →

What Heaven Must Look Like.

 China faces 24M bride shortage by 2020.  Read more here.

Jaleo Pegate She Bangs Lola, Lola Vuelve Juaramento

When our minds and hearts  are open, our vision becomes clear. Suddenly, every corner of the world  seems to compete for our attention. There are books to be read, passions to be discovered, and future old friends-now living as strangers- unknowingly waiting for the journey to begin. Days … Continue reading →

It Happened One Night Gilda Defiance All About Eve* (My favorite movie) Black Book V for Vendetta* Giant* Secretary* Hounddog## Burning Bed*## *Movies I have seen more than once and enjoyed. ## Difficult to watch What movies have you enjoyed?

Each time I take my two dogs down for their walk, I am sure not to get into the elevator with other dogs or children as Tony has a tendency to overreact and has even tried to nip those by whom … Continue reading →

There is nothing so good as a good friend who loves you enough to be 100% honest with you and you love and trust to take what they say to heart. Just another blessing to count. Mine is named Annie.

This list might seem like the most obvious thing I have posted or it may open your eyes.  I sure hope that, whatever it does, it helps you to live your best life by keeping you surrounded and supported by … Continue reading →

A chance to start fresh? Another day to wallow? A day to “get through”? A day to be thankful for?

You make them all by yourself.

What makes you most beautiful is something that is all your own.

Actions may speak louder than words but it is important to remember that words make an impact that can last a lifetime. Though we might not really mean the things we say in anger, gossip and jest, once the statements are out of our mouths, … Continue reading →

We often see courage in bold and decisive actions but this, like so many ideas we have about the ways in which we ought to view things, blinds us from the truth.  Just as it takes strength to walk away from something, … Continue reading →

Will Ferrill makes a cameo in a couple’s NY Times Wedding Announcement.

In December, I decided to choose a theme song for 2010 and listened to several dozen to pick the perfect one.  I know you’ll likely not be shocked  when I tell you it’s a Madonna song (not Enrique!)  but  “Celebration” … Continue reading →

I am looking for women to share the worst gift they ever received (I once got ground hamburger).  Send your first name, age and location (alias is fine) as well as a line or two about the gift to CINDERELLAWASALIAR@GMAIL.COM

Can you let go of plans that are not working? Do you own the words that come out of your mouth? Do you sit down and think about different ways to fix a problem or throw a fit, hide from … Continue reading →