Monthly Archives: December 2009

There 1,440 minutes in one day. How many can you spend positive. How many will you waste being angry bitter or resentful?

An old favorite.

I recently did an interview with an established expert who was eager to tell me how much they knew (I have to refer to them as “they/them” sorry). That’s normally a good thing but the problem with this particular expert was … Continue reading →

Believe. Dream. Hope. Laugh. Smile. Desire. Comfort. Encourage. Love. Relax. Respect.

At some point, we have to release all that has been said and done and move into the space we call home in the here and now.  What is the point of a life span if we never move forward?  … Continue reading →

In just a couple of weeks, readers will be able to purchase copies of CWAL for their electronic readers!  If you’re interested in purchasing the new paperback version of the book, click here.

  By BRENDA DELLA CASA for Divorce360.com We live in a chaotic and anxious world but finding peace is easier than you might think. Read below for 10 Ways to relax into a more peaceful state of mind. 1. Make a … Continue reading →

One of my dear friends is an editor at Shape and she needs your help picking the hottest M/F fitness models. Vote at http://bit.ly/Z2TA4

Dress Appropriately:  Instead of trying to wear clothing you “used” to fit into or that “used” to look good on you, wear tailored clothing in feel-good fabrics in colors that look good on you now.  Added Bonus:  When you look … Continue reading →

Flying solo can be a gorgeous gift when one fly’s first class.  Here are a few ways to enjoy a little alone time. Have a Spa Night:  Light a few candles, burn a calming scented oil and lay in a … Continue reading →

This morning, I found myself in the ever-frustrating position of having to start over on something that should have been completed by now. I had spent hours working on it and hours stressing out as to why it was not … Continue reading →

What Do You Think of The Tiger Woods Scandal? (polls)

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Strung together, each fighting to be meaningful, and memorable.

People are telling and showing you who they really are all of the time.

Take the Myers-Briggs personality test!

The words we choose to use and the decisions we make have an impact on the people who are in our lives.  You may think “what they do not know won’t hurt them” but the truth has an incredible ability to find its … Continue reading →

When your feet walk to the beat of your heart and your words speak the truth of your soul, it is at that moment you enter the kingdom of Heaven.

Have you seen it?  Amazing!

You are lovely and worthy and truly meaningful to the world. Act Like It.

You are lovely and worthy and truly meaningful to the world. Act Like It.

To live a life confined in a prison of anxiety and worry, forced to stare at painful memories from the past, to avoid love based on what was not love at all, while trying to understand the unthinkable, is  a … Continue reading →

Or achievement will elude you.

We cannot anticipate what life will present to us, Or hope away the hurtful or worrisome days. We cannot dream our way into a new place, but instead take steps to get to where it is that we want to … Continue reading →

Have one you want answered on IamStaggered.com?  Send it to CinderellaWasaLiar@gmail.com!

What not to Wear is calling on fans in the tri-state area interested in participating in the 250th episode of the show! If you are dedicated WNTW fan, now is your chance to help Stacy London and Clinton Kelly ambush … Continue reading →

Send out invitations through Paperless Post Tell each guest to bring two dozen of their favorite cookies and to email you the recipe*. Stock up on cocoa, milk & coffee (spike with kahlua, gingerbread liqueur or chocolate liqueur) Have guests make … Continue reading →

Who cares what anyone thinks, about who you love, how you look, or the music you listen to? Why waste your life trying to fit in, when the secret goal of everyone on this planet, is to stand out in … Continue reading →

Enrique gets sassy and break things Enrique is half naked Enrique Pushes the Boundaries of Naughty Enrique Rings some bells (this is the video for “Love to see you cry” but it works so well with this song) Enrique Rings some … Continue reading →

Read my friend and colleague, Marissa, interview with Dame Elizabeth Taylor here.

“Worrying about your press more than your person is a surefire way to a lonely life.” My latest tweet.  Follow me on Twitter @BrendaDellaCasa

Can a bad gift harm a relationship?  Read what experts say here.

One is good, two is better: Champagne and a shot of Apple Liqueur Chocolate Chip Pecan Blondies and a steaming cup of White Chocolate Cocoa A steak sandwich (on a crusty baguette) with French Onion Soup Manchego cheese and honey … Continue reading →

I’m here to help. What’s your best in-law tale?

My friend, Marisa, had this on her FB Wall and it was too good not to share.  From yummy to disgusting, here are some deep-fried favorites.

“I think all women have a certain elegance about them which is destroyed when they take off their clothes.”

Write a “To-Do” list Every Evening: Put down what needs to be done the next day and do it.  Anything else that needs to be done (unless it’s dire) can be added to your next one.  Remember, work has a way … Continue reading →

My friend, Stefan, has his own line of greeting cards now and they’re perfect for Bachelorette bashes and to send to your friends who are in need of a sultry smile.  Check out his cards, totes and other items here.

Instead of staring at a situation with anxiety and fear, break it down into pieces. 1) What are three things that are causing you upset about the situation? 2) What are three ways you can change each of these things?   3) What … Continue reading →

Instead of just writing a list and pinning it on your fridge, put your goals, hopes and dreams in an email to your future self (up to 30 years in the future) and see just how much your life then reflects your dreams now.

  Anyone who has met my little T knows that he is a perfect little being, and like most four-legged babies, he lives for treats. In fact, he goes so crazy when anyone mentions them that we have taken to spelling … Continue reading →

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Check out the supercute Google Search Engine today!

I have just read that Tiger Wood’s wife, Elin, has moved out of the couple’s home.   As of this morning, it was reported the golf great has strayed with at least 10 women.  Do you think it matters how many … Continue reading →

A while back, two of my dearest friends, Marc and Jeff, came up with an amazing idea and the world is now catching on!  If you have a car, you have to have a DropStop!

Read my advice on WomansDay.com here.

Go with a glamorous side part and curls a la Rita. Pull it back in a sophisticated bun like Ava. Go blonde like Marilyn. Grow it long like Veronica. Crop it like Audrey. Make sure you really want this, have a … Continue reading →

According to Marie Claire, 74% of women would bed Craig Ferguson over any of the other late-night boys.  What do you think of Craig?  (He’s my favorite)

That most guys hate heavy make-up and find revealing clothes and long, red nails ”tacky”? What are things that we’re told are sexy that you find icky?

As people say whatever it is they choose to say.