Monthly Archives: November 2009

While you’re still here to say it, and they are still here to hear it.

I have decided to start all of the things I have always said I wanted to learn before 2010 gets here.  This means… I am cooking something new every night. I now have yarn and a “how to knit” kit … Continue reading →

Well, now men have scientific data to support their looking at the female physique. Or do they?  What do you think of this?

I just love her in this video and love the song. When you need a little motivation. Gorgeous. I love this song so much. Bitter Sweet.  Lovely. Reminds me of my most special someone. C’mon Girls! She’s stunning in this … Continue reading →

Last night I made the most amazing fig sauce and wanted to share the easy recipe with you.  Since I was serving it with Flank Steak, I changed the stock from beef to chicken.  I am guessing you could make … Continue reading →

The 50 best inventions of 2009 according to Time Magazine. Which one is your favorite? I’d have to say a step towards an AIDS Vaccine is mine.

I have noticed lately that when I travel with my guy, we always find ourselves having to ask someone to switch seats with us because the airline doesn’t put us together and then wants to charge us for a move … Continue reading →

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are just feelings.

To pick up your holiday cards and stamps. To donate old coats and sweaters. To put all of your receipts and papers together to get a head start on tax season. To bake-or make- something nice for those you cannot afford … Continue reading →

Pick up “The Count of Monte Cristo” Make Mexican Hot Chocolate Decorate your pad (I just found the prettiest poinsettia’s and pine cones that smell of cinnamon…my place smells so nice!) Paint something in your place be it a wall, a … Continue reading →

Planing to shop til you drop next Friday?  Read this before you do.

Facebook is buzzing about Johnny Depp’s second Sexiest Man Alive win.  Most of the women I know are nodding in agreement and many of the men are swearing they gave ole Johnny a run for his money   All jokes aside, who … Continue reading →

With the weather turning and the days turning to night too fast for most of our liking (well, most of us not in FL or California) having the right movies on-hand can help keep boredom at bay.  Here are a … Continue reading →

I remember coming home from school and seeing Oprah on the screen at my neighbor’s house.  Even at the tender age of seven, I remember that everyone loved Oprah.  My friend’s mothers would talk about the vivacious talk show host who … Continue reading →

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You have but one life to live and one chance to live it so it’s up to you to push through and be the person you want to be. There truly is no time like the present.

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Maintaining a little dignity in how you relate is the best way to keep control in a situation.   Toss Contempt:  Taking a hierarchical stance in any conversation will lead to defensiveness at best and resentment and even disdain at worst.  … Continue reading →

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““Action seems to follow feeling, but really action and feeling go together; and by regulating the action, which is under the more direct control of the will, we can indirectly regulate the feeling, which is not,” William James “The goal … Continue reading →

While it’s always nice to have someone else make an effort for us, too many of us sit around, waiting-and stewing-that others are not meeting our expectations.  There’s no rule that says that we have to wait for someone else to do … Continue reading →

The Opera: Gorgeous costumes, lovely voices, passionate and romantic storylines all make for an elegant evening on the town. French Cuisine:  There are so many different recipes and all are tasty.  Get cookin’! Reading: Shut off the TV and open … Continue reading →

Listen to my friend and former editor, Josey Miller, as she explains all of the tasty and sexy ways to fight the flu virus here.

Read five ways to scare a man off here.

My love What goes around (comes around) SexyBack FutureSexLoveSound Chop me Up Cry Me a River  

We are not always going to like everyone we meet or everything about those we love.  Instead of focusing on frustrations, try and find at least one thing you can appreciate and admire about the difficult people you know.  See … Continue reading →

Speak to yourself with love and compassion. Stand up for yourself as you would another that you loved. Spoil yourself every once in a while. Appreciate yourself. Give yourself a pep talk when you’re feeling low. Celebrate yourself!

That’s all.

Singing My Song Can’t Take That Away from Me Stronger I am beautiful The voice within   Christina writes some great ones

This is absolutely awesome. I never liked the original but Mimi kills it!

Love can build a bridge but nothing can burn it down faster than an ego on fire!

We should never change our good nature to try and avoid looking “weak”. To be kind in the face of the unkind is to show amazing strength.

People cannot give you what they do not have to give. This is the case even if they want to give it.    

“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”

Peace will never live in a home operated by anger and fear.  

When we get angry, we lose our temper. Think about that for a moment… We “lose” control. We Lose.

Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. “Pooh!” he whispered. “Yes, Piglet?” “Nothing,” said Piglet, taking Pooh’s paw. “I just wanted to be sure of you.” ~A.A. Milne, from Winnie the Pooh

To live in a world of either/or,Black or white, Pass or fail, is to forget that there is a middle ground, and to deny our right to move things around.  

I was watching the movie “Doubt” a couple of nights ago and there was a scene in which the priest (Phillip Seymour Hoffman) discussed gossip.  I loved the message in the scene so much that I wanted to share it … Continue reading →

Think about where you want to go and make a decision, right now, to start moving in that direction. You have a choice, an obligation to do what it is your heart aches for you to do, to finally become … Continue reading →

can we truly hear what our soul is saying.

Loneliness and solitude. Passion and Disrespect. Caring and Control. Fear and Want.  

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What would truly make you happy on a cellular level?

Be honest with yourself about your concerns, desires, needs, wants, hopes and dreams. Think about the ways in which you have set these things aside. Think about what life might be like if you focused on nurturing yourself. Maybe you’re … Continue reading →

10 things you love about yourself  5 things you want to work on 5 people who support and love and encourage you. All of the people who make you feel chaotic, put down or negative about yourself or your life … Continue reading →