Monthly Archives: September 2009

What are you going to learn more about this week?

Love and friendship are two things that should remain uncomplicated by obligation. Do the right things because they are worth honoring and protecting and not with a sense of duress.

Your talent and worth are not determined by this economy. Keep doing what you are doing. Stay focused and strong. Hone your talents. Nurture your soul. You’re going to get through this.

That just as you are about to give up and walk away, the phone rings and its opportunity calling?

To the possibilities of your life.

Just thought you ought to know.

The sun and moon are still on the same schedule, But the day is new, and the slate is clean. Take a moment and plan out what you want to experience, think about being the best you can be, and … Continue reading →

It can be so hard not to take certain brush-off’s and criticisms to heart but it’s sometimes helpful to remember that much of what is thrown our way are projections and assumptions and have very little (nothing) to do with who … Continue reading →

No one can stop you if you really want it and you’re willing to focus and work for it.

Think about the people who love you. Think about the people you love. Think about the  experiences you have. Think about the ways in which you impact the experiences of others. Think about the dreams you have. Think about the … Continue reading →

When we are humble and open, when we walk away from ego and hurt, Change can happen. And when it does, it can be profound. Zebras may not change their stripes, but we are not Zebras.

Sitting in front of the ocean, watching the sunrise, I took a deep breath and thought to myself, “The things that we make so important are not all that important at all, are they?” Love. Life. Health. Connection. Experience. Kindness.

Find a little time to connect with yourself. Do the things you truly want to do. Sort through your thoughts. Take a moment and read some of your life’s back chapters. Never forget that you are more than who you … Continue reading →

The world is so big, bigger than anything that is intimidating you, bigger than anything they say, or anything they do.

The next time a stressful situation presents itself, see it as an exciting challenge instead of a daunting setback.  Think of all of the ways you can attack it and work through it and give yourself kudos for your creativity … Continue reading →

How will you carry yourself? What standards will you hold yourself to? How will you flash your “Jackie-O” the next time you are faced with a tantrum-inducing situation? How you react is often more important than what it is that … Continue reading →

Give it. Receive it. Cherish it.

How cool is this place!? I just found it and I am going tonight.  How could I not?

        www.cinderellawasaliar.com

If this doesn’t make your heart swell up, nothing will.  Absolutely adorable!

James Grant’s piece,  From Bear to Bull makes a great point about the unreliability of expert claims when it comes to the economy. What do you think? For those of you unfamiliar with the terms, “Bull” and “Bear”  click herefor … Continue reading →

How will you keep calm? How will you make someone feel accepted? How will you be honest when it is easier to lie? How will allow someone else to shine? How will you lift up the soul of another? How … Continue reading →

Cheap thrills or something lasting? Fame or respect? Revenge or forgiveness? Creation or admiration? Fire or water? Sun or rain?

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      “A wicked doer give heed to false lips; and a liar giveth ear to a naughty tongue.” -Proverbs 17:4

You are not a child. You are not at the mercy of those around you. You are not riding in the passenger seat. You’re at the wheel. You choose.   Give yourself a chance to soar. Protect your right to … Continue reading →

I’ve just received an email from a friend in China  who mentioned how “out-of-the-loop” because she cannot log onto Facebook (it has been banned). I post this as a reminder to all of us to appreciate and respect our freedoms.

I am not too sure if you have read about Mackenzie Phillips and what she has revealed about her deeply inappropriate relationship with her father (be warned, it’s more than a little disturbing) but I wanted to post about it … Continue reading →

Enrique has come by to explain the rumor that Anna is pregnant! If it is true, I wish them the very best!

between “defeat” and “defeated”.

Many years ago, while trying to establish myself and make a living as a writer in New York, I took a job at a “prestigious” investment bank where I worked for some of the most well-known names in finance.   There was one man in particular … Continue reading →

When I wrote Twenty-Something: Quarter Life Crisis in 2001, I wrote it as a frightened, worried, confused young woman who was surrounded by men and women who all seemed to be going through something they had no idea how they … Continue reading →

All that you give, is all you will get, sooner or later, it all evens out.

Allow the universe to kiss your cheek, see your reflection in the eyes of another, the dreams you share, the smiles you pass back-and-forth, the hope you are both grasping onto.   Let the rainfall was away your worries, instead … Continue reading →

This is really cute and very funny.

This is a lot of fun.  I love her! This one with Victoria and Becks on Ali G is even funnier (it’s  naughty so be warned).

Don’t Tell Anyone Which Celebrity They Remind You Of:  Unless they are universally deemed an otherworldly beauty,  because not only might they not be flattered, you might hurt their feelings. People Make Up Things: You can’t worry about the petty stuff or … Continue reading →

Have you guys seen this?

Having to beg and plead for something is degrading and can lead to feelings of inadequacy and/or deep resentment, which corrodes our chances at living our best lives.  What are you constantly having to ask for?

It’s important to remember that there is more to a relationship than a simple biological, romantic or professional link.  Healthy and strong relationships are built on a foundation made from trust, respect and understanding and they are built over time.  Each trustworthy, respectful and … Continue reading →

Gossip Deception Chaos Betrayal Cruelty Thoughtlessness Selfishness Bigotry Viciousness Negativity Rage Abandonment Abuse

That some things are unforgivable.

 no matter how certain you might be.

Some days you’ll feel overwhelmed, some days you’ll feel a little crazy, and others, you’ll feel as though it’s all under control.   Some day will leave you hopeful, some days will have you feeling hopeless, but remember that all … Continue reading →

So many of us look for reasons to reinforce the ideas we have about ourselves and work hard to ignore any evidence to the contrary.  When it comes to who you really are, do you know or just have an … Continue reading →

Is most important.

What is that voice deep inside of you screaming out for? What do you need all of us to hear?

If you say nothing, if you try nothing, if you love nothing, if you regret nothing, if you learn nothing, if you apologize for nothing, How can your  life be something more?

Take a few minutes and read about this true hero who has been awarded (and very much deserves) the medal of honor.  It’s a shame he is not here to receive it.