Monthly Archives: April 2009

How will you use your power for good?

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What feels big, isn’t. The smallest change makes the biggest impact. The job/relationship/friendship/habit no longer feels right. You won’t succeed. You’ll surpass your expectations. The limitations you place on yourself aren’t necessary. Who is to blame doesn’t matter. You’ll soar. … Continue reading →

It’s so much more comfortable being the one doing the finger-pointing, isn’t it?

If you’re ready to change for the better, go on and take a step.  It doesn’t matter what people think about your changing or how many naysayers you encounter on your way to a better place.  As long as you … Continue reading →

And appreciate what you have going for you.  In 25 years, you will wish you had.

We’re human, not robots.  We have feelings and needs and wants and desires. Vulnerability is a part of the human experience. Embrace it!

There are those who blame others for every harsh word and bad decision and others who take the blame when they should toss it right back across the room. We are responsible only for what we choose to say and do and this … Continue reading →

We continue most of our routines because they are comfortable but it is possible to be comfortable with discomfort.  How will you begin to break the patterns that are keeping you in a state of unrest?

If you’re too darn busy/stressed-out…tone it down!

Between brunches, dinners and happy hours, drinking among women has become a common way to socialize and relax. While some studies applaud the health benefits of an occasional glass of red wine, the truth is that there are many other (healthier) … Continue reading →

So many people chit and chat about others but how does gossiping do anything to make the world (or your workplace) a better place?

It’s an unfortunate reality that people pass judgements on everything from how you dress and smell to the way you speak and carry yourself.  One study pointed out that it takes 30 seconds for someone to form a “first impression” … Continue reading →

When John Gotti was sliding through the courts for so many years, the press coined him the “Teflon Don” because the prosecution could never make any of the charges stick.  When I interviewed Mr. Gotti’s long-time attorney, Bruce Cutler, in … Continue reading →

The more informed we are, the more likely we will make better decisions.   How will you collect some more facts?

Getting them to say the right things is not.

The Father of  Slumdog Millionaire” star, Rubina Ali, has been accused of agreeing to sell  the young girl (9)  to a sheik for cash. He says he turned down the offer.  His eldest daughter is saying he drove her out of … Continue reading →

A former astronaut says that we are not alone in the universe.  What do you think? Do you believe there is life on other planets? I hope there is! Neato!

Clean it Up!  A mess is stressful, distracting and chaotic.  Sort through your papers, toss the old coffee cups and give your walls, desk and table a good wiping. Add Personal Touches:  Put out a framed photo, hang your favorite … Continue reading →

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who had a distinct talent for shifting blame, regardless of what they had done?  These serial bs’ers (blame-shifters) are excellent at taking their bad choices and wrapping them around your neck.  … Continue reading →

Focus on what you want. Think of five ways you can work towards it. Think of five people who can help. Look in. Reach out.

How you approach a situation and/or relationship often determines how successful/fulfillingit will seem.  Move into something with excitement, passion and determination and you’ll find it far more pleasing than if you approach it with fear, passivity or treat it as … Continue reading →

We may not always succeed in what we set out to accomplish but we fail the moment we decide not to even try.

Not every person you meet is meant to be your friend…or your enemy.

She’s the VIP of this and all of my blogs and I was so thrilled to see this photo of my favorite actress. It is so sad to me that she felt so unloved and rejected all of her life only to … Continue reading →

This is better than coffee.

Patricia Wexler’s Regenerating Serum- Go to Bath and Body works and get it because it works! Experiencing a New City: I have lived in DC, LA, NY, Dallas and spent a short time in SF and while  I am always going to … Continue reading →

As most of you know, I love all kinds of music but I never get tired of the blues and this can be credited to my discovery of Eric Clapton when I was 16.  I heard this song and was amazed. Many people know him for his … Continue reading →

If you are like me, you might find yourself getting caught on the hooks of the past, often wasting precious time trying to “protect” yourself from experiencing the same not-so-fabulous experiences you experienced (endured) way back when.  There aren’t too … Continue reading →

Nice song, I think.

Think about what the younger version of yourself would think about where you are right now?

How can you transform your life?  In what ways are you being stuck-in-your-ways?  How are you being resourceful and motivated?

New York Magazine is running a feature called “My First New York” and inside, actors, writers, designers and others share what NY meant for them and what it was like when they moved there.  I thought it would be fun … Continue reading →

How to get a second date with a good guy You met a great guy, excitedly exchanged numbers and now he’s called to ask you out! Congrats! Heed the following tips to ensure he has every reason to dial your … Continue reading →

You are more than your job.

I had a couple of girlfriends over last night and we got onto the subject of cutting people out of your life once you realize they are bringing negative energy into it on a consistent basis.  It’s so easy to … Continue reading →

Ashton Kutcher is never one to shy away from the spotlight which is why it is no surprise thathe’s taken on media giant, CNN, in an online popularity contest via super-social network, Twitter.  So far, Demi’s man is in the … Continue reading →

And don’t forget to become a friend on Facebook!

The Cinderella Was a Liar site has been updated and has links to interviews and podcasts.  If any of you have not read the book, I hope you will (and if you have, I hope you will encourage your friends … Continue reading →

We’re all just souls searching for a place to feel safe.

If you have not seen this, you must watch it.  She’s absolutely precious and it will shock you.  Good For Her!

That we can go where we want to go. That we can do what we dream of doing. That we deserve love, respect and success. That we are beautiful. That the truth shall find us (always). That we don’t need … Continue reading →

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You know what is there, you have lived through it. Don’t let the ghosts haunt you… Let go of the feelings that you felt before gaining the wisdom you now have inside of you. You’re not the same version of … Continue reading →

Think about it a while.  The answer might surprise you.

When are you better not knowing?

So many people are eager to take from life, the world, others, society, corporations, etc.  What are you willing to give?

Last week, while out lunching with a few ladies, I mentioned how kind it was that my special somebody had sent out a nice invitation for my birthday party.   No sooner had the smile come across my face that I  had the unfortunate experience of having … Continue reading →

1. If someone uses the term, “I am just being honest” or “You’re too sensitive” there’s a good chance you just got verbally sucker-punched. 2. It’s an unfortunate reality that being respectful, loving and kind doesn’t automatically guarantee reciprocation. 3. … Continue reading →

Such a pretty song!